What to text when she asks lots of questions then ignores you

If she's asking you things but not reading or responding to what you send back, the questions are filler. She's being friendly or keeping options open, not actually moving forward. This is different from being busy. Someone who's busy still opens your message. Someone uninterested asks questions but forgets to check your reply.

She might ask about your weekend plans, your job, your hometown. You answer. Nothing. Two days later she texts about something unrelated, or nothing at all. The silence after your response is what matters. The questions were just energy she wasn't willing to keep up.

Do one thing. Shift the burden back to her. Don't answer all her questions in detail. Don't ask new ones. Give a short, real answer to one thing she asked, then make a direct move. Suggest a time and place for coffee. Ask for her number. Propose something specific.

This does two things at once. You're showing you actually listened to what she said. But you're also making clear that if this goes anywhere, it happens in person, not over text. If she's actually interested, she'll respond to the concrete ask. If she ignores that too, you know where you stand.

Don't follow up right away. Let the silence sit for at least three days. If she hasn't responded to a direct proposal by then, a second text looks desperate and won't change anything. One follow-up text is fine, maybe four or five days after the first. Keep it short. Don't reference her silence or ask why she disappeared. Just move on.

If she doesn't respond to the second message, stop. You've tested this twice. She's shown you where she stands. Another text wastes your time and can come across as needy. If she comes back later, you can reply, but you're not chasing this.