Should you double text if she hasn't responded yet

A one-liner with no hook almost never gets a response. "Hey, how's your week going?" requires her to start a conversation from scratch. She has to think of something to say, type it out, hit send. That's friction. If your first message was generic or didn't give her anything to work with, a second message won't fix it.

Non-response also doesn't always mean no interest. She might be traveling, dealing with work stress, or checking the app once a week. Some people are just bad at texting. Two days is nothing. Three days is still nothing. A week starts to matter more.

If you're going to send something again, send it 3 to 5 days later with completely different content. Reference something from her profile or a conversation you had in person. Ask a real question that shows you were paying attention. Keep it short. Don't acknowledge the silence or apologize.

The second message has to feel like it could stand on its own. It can't be a follow-up to the first one. She needs to read it and think you're interesting enough to reply to right now, not feel obligated because she ignored your last text.

Send one second message 3 to 5 days after the first. If she doesn't reply within 2 to 3 days after that, she's not coming back. Sometimes people need to see your name twice before they engage. Most of the time, two unanswered messages means she's moved on or never planned to reply.

Don't send three messages. Don't text her friends. Don't bring it up later in person. Move your energy to people who are actually responding to you. If she comes back weeks later, you can reply then. Don't keep the conversation on life support.