Respond when she says she's not used to your level of attention

When she says she's not used to this, she's telling you that most guys in her past were either inconsistent, slow to respond, or showed up only when they wanted something. Your steady presence is standing out to her because it's rare in her experience. She's not uncomfortable. She's noticing the difference.

This is actually a positive signal. She wouldn't mention it if she didn't care about how you're treating her. The mention itself means she's thinking about the contrast and checking whether you mean it or if you're just putting on a show. Her job right now is to figure out if you'll keep showing up the same way or if you're in an early-effort phase that will fade.

Your reply needs to do two things. First, acknowledge what she said without treating it like a problem that needs solving. Second, treat your behavior as something you do naturally, not something special you're doing for her. Don't explain the reasoning behind it or justify it. Just own it.

The move is to be straightforward and brief. You're not trying to convince her. You're showing her that this is not a performance. Then redirect to something concrete in the conversation so you're not dwelling on the meta moment. Keep it light. Keep it moving.

After you reply, do not change your communication style. If you suddenly become less available or slower to respond, she will connect that change to this conversation and assume you were performing before. Consistency is what proves you meant what you said.

If she continues to bring up your attentiveness, that's different. That becomes a sign she's uncomfortable with how fast things are moving. But this single mention is her noticing and testing. Stay the course. If weeks go by and she's still not matching your effort level or pushing back on your pace, that's when you have an actual conversation about whether you're on the same page.