How to reply when she says I like talking to you but I'm slow to meet

The line about being slow is usually a soft way of asking whether you're interested. She's already decided she likes you enough to keep talking, so the message is about direction. The lol and the is that a thing you're into question both signal she wants reassurance without wanting to sound needy. Notice whether she gives you any detail about what she'd like, like a specific day or a place. If she does, she's further along than she's letting on. If she doesn't, she's probably waiting to see if you'll make the move.

Also check the timing. If you've been texting for a few days and no plan has come up, she's likely noticed the pattern. Her message is her way of asking you to break it. She isn't asking for a long explanation. She wants a sign that the slowness was about your schedule or nerves, not indifference.

Two kinds of reply fit this situation. The first is a direct one. You confirm you like talking to her, say plainly that you want to meet, and name one rough option like this week or a weekend. The job here is to close the question. A draft is working when it contains a yes to meeting and a concrete window. It should leave out any explanation of why you've been slow, since that turns the moment into a defence.

The second is a light one that still commits. You acknowledge the texting with a bit of warmth, then ask her what she's free for. This works when you're not ready to name a day yet but want to show you're on board. The draft is working when it ends on a question about her availability. It should leave out anything that reads as a joke about being a texter, because that gives her a reason to doubt you.

In both kinds, keep the message short and specific. A long reply about your feelings or your schedule will bury the one thing she needs to see, which is that you want to meet her.

Send your reply within a few hours if you can. A slow answer to a question about being slow sends the wrong signal. If you're going to be busy, a quick message saying you want to pick a day and you'll sort it tonight is better than silence. If she replies, follow through on the plan you mentioned, or give her the next concrete step.

If she doesn't answer within a day or two, send one short follow-up that lowers the stakes, like asking about a specific day that works. Don't send a second paragraph about how much you enjoy the conversation. If she still doesn't respond, the chat has probably run its course. Stop there rather than sending three more messages to check.