How to know if she's talking to multiple guys?

A single text tells you almost nothing. Look at the shape across the last week or two. Does she reply within a similar window each time, or does the gap swing from ten minutes to two days? Does she ask you questions back, or does she only answer what you asked? Warmth that stays steady is a better sign than intense bursts followed by silence.

Pay attention to what she brings up on her own. A woman who is focused on you tends to mention small things from earlier conversations, like the thing you said about your sister's wedding. A woman who is spreading her attention thin usually keeps the chat generic and gives the same answers to everyone. You won't be able to read her perfectly, but a stable, specific pattern is the thing to trust.

When you're unsure, the move is to match her pace and keep the conversation pointed at something real. If she's giving short answers, shorten yours and keep the question specific enough that it's easy to answer. If she's engaged, lean in a little with a follow-up that shows you were listening.

What you want to leave out is anything that asks her to account for her time. Questions about who else she's talking to, or lines that imply you're keeping score, put her on the defensive and tell her you're anxious. The better path is to keep building the connection until the question of exclusivity comes up naturally, usually once you've spent actual time together.

Reassurance is a weak currency. You can keep texting and hoping she'll say she's only into you, and she may not say it for weeks. A plan gives you a clearer read. If she agrees to meet and shows up on time, engaged and warm, the question of who else she's seeing gets much smaller.

If you've texted for a couple of weeks with no date on the calendar, make the ask. Keep it simple, give a specific day, and see how she responds. Her reaction to a concrete suggestion will tell you more than another round of small talk ever could.