She seems upset you wanted to know more about her: what to do

When she says the question was too much, look at what exactly she objected to. Was it the number of questions stacked together, which is a pacing problem? Was it the personal depth, like asking about past relationships or family, which is a timing problem? Or was it the feeling of being assessed, like asking what she wants out of this or what she is looking for, which is a framing problem? Each one points to a different fix. A stack of questions means you slow down to one thing at a time. Going too deep means you bring the conversation back to lighter ground. Feeling assessed means you talk more about yourself and what you are interested in, so she is not the only one being looked at.

Also notice the tone. A joke with a tired emoji is very different from a short, flat reply. The first means she is still interested and just wants a different rhythm. The second means she is pulling back and may not be looking for a long back-and-forth right now.

Whatever she has pointed at, you need to acknowledge it in a way that makes sense to her, in a single short line. If she said it was a lot of questions, own that it came out as a barrage and then move to a single, easy question or an offer about yourself. If she said it felt like an interview, take the pressure off and share something about your own week so the exchange feels like two people talking. You do not need to explain why you were curious, and you do not need a speech about it. A brief, light acknowledgement and a shift in shape is enough.

The move you are looking for is one where she does not have to respond to the criticism at all. She can read your message, feel the pace has eased, and keep talking about whatever she likes. If your reply makes her feel she has to justify her reaction or reassure you, you have made it heavier.

After you have replied to the reaction, wait before sending anything else. A few hours is fine if the conversation was already flowing, and a full day is better if her last message was short or cool. Sending a second message within the hour after a "not a fan of interviews" reads as pushing. If she replies warmly, match her energy and keep things light. If she replies with a single word or a thumbs up, you have your answer on how much she wants to talk right now, and you can take the conversation a step lighter or let it rest.

If you get no reply at all after a reasonable gap, send one short, low-pressure message with no question attached, something that stands on its own. If that also goes unanswered, stop. Continuing to follow up after a clear signal of discomfort is the thing that turns a minor moment into a real problem, and it tells her the boundary she set was not respected.