How often should I meet during the talking stage?

Start by looking at how she is replying, not at how many messages you have sent. Does she ask you questions back? Does she pick up on details you mentioned and bring them up later? Does she reply in full sentences or in short, flat ones? Those signals tell you whether she is investing in the conversation.

If she is engaged and asking things, a date proposal will usually be welcome, even if she hesitates on the timing. If her replies are short and she never asks anything back, the problem may not be meeting frequency at all. It may be that she doesn't have much interest yet, and pushing for a meeting will only make that clear to both of you. In that case, improve the conversation first. Ask a question she can't answer with one word, then see what she does with it.

A message that asks in general terms is easy to leave unanswered. A message that names a specific place, a day, and a rough time gives her something to accept or adjust. Keep it short and tie it to something you've already talked about, so it reads as a continuation rather than a cold request.

The proposal should not be buried inside a longer message about your week. Put it on its own, or near the end, with one clear question. If she says she's busy this week, don't argue the point. Offer one alternative window and let her choose. Two options is usually enough to keep things moving without making her feel boxed in.

If you have proposed a time and she hasn't answered in a day or two, send one short follow-up. Keep it light and skip any sign of hurt, like asking whether she's still interested. Something that just nudges the plan forward is enough.

If you get no reply after that, stop chasing for now. Two unanswered messages in a row, with no reason given, is information. Give it a few days before you try again, and if the pattern continues, it's fine to let the conversation fade. You don't need to end it dramatically. Simply stop initiating and see whether she picks it back up.