He stopped asking to see you again after the last date? What to do

Start by measuring the change. If he was proposing dates within a couple of days of the first meeting and has now gone a week or more without raising it, the drop is real and worth noticing. If he never proposed a second date in the first place and you were the one keeping things moving, the silence is less about his plans and more about how the momentum was built.

Look at what he does engage with. If he still answers your messages, asks about your day, and sends you things, he is still interested in talking. If he has become slow and flat only on the topic of meeting, that suggests he may be unsure about timing, money, a busy stretch at work, or whether he wants to commit to a second date. None of those is a verdict on you. Each one points to a different next step, so your read should follow the specific pattern rather than your fears about it.

The reply has to make it simple for him to move the plan forward without feeling he has to justify the delay. Pick one concrete thing, such as something you have both mentioned, a place you have been meaning to try, or a day that works for you. A specific suggestion is far easier to respond to than an open question about whether he is free sometime.

Keep the tone light and forward-looking rather than wounded or inquisitive. You want him to hear that you are still interested and comfortable being the one who names a plan, not that you are checking whether he still wants to see you. Include a clear way to say yes or to pick another day, so the answer is easy in either direction and you learn something useful from whatever he sends back.

Send during the part of the day when he is likely to be reading and free to reply, usually midday or early evening on a weekday. A message that arrives late at night, or in the middle of a weekend when he is probably out, gets buried and then reads as an afterthought once he sees it.

If you send the suggestion and get no reply within two or three days, you can send one short, low-pressure follow-up that gives him another easy out, such as a different day or an option to just grab a drink after work. After that second attempt, stop initiating about meeting for a while and see whether he picks up the thread on his own. If the conversation stays one-sided for another week or so, you have your answer. At that point, stop investing more of your attention and decide whether you want to keep the chat going at all.