He cancelled the second date with no reschedule. Here's what to do.

A cancellation without a new time proposed is not a raincheck. It's a pause with no endpoint, which means you're stuck waiting. Guys who want a second date reschedule in the same message or within 24 hours. If he's done neither, he either forgot, which is unlikely if he was interested, or he's cooling off to see if you'll keep the door open.

This matters because the longer you wait for him to figure it out, the more invested you become in the outcome. See the situation for what it is now, not what you hope it becomes later.

A strong reply names the problem clearly but briefly, then gives him one choice. Step up or step back. You're not asking for an explanation. You're not offering new dates. You're saying this needs to move forward or stop here.

This works because it puts the decision back on him. Right now the weight is on you, waiting. The reply also sets a boundary. You don't sit around hoping he'll figure out logistics. That's attractive because it's what most people don't do.

Send your reply within 24 hours of the cancellation, while it's still fresh. Don't wait three days thinking it'll feel less eager. Speed shows you're making a choice, not just reacting.

After you send it, give him 48 to 72 hours to respond. If he comes back with a specific date, he's interested. If he doesn't, or if he says something vague like 'definitely soon,' you're done. Don't send another message. Don't ask if he's still interested. He had one job.