Does She Like Me If She Never Asks About My Day?

Look at what she does with the questions you ask. If she gives a full answer and then mentions something back to you, she's invested even if she rarely opens new topics. If she gives a one-word answer and changes the subject, or answers and then goes quiet, the lack of follow-up is information. Pay attention to whether she ever brings up something you said days ago. People who like someone remember details and circle back to them, even casually. People who are only passing the time usually don't.

Also check the balance over a week, not one afternoon. A busy person might have three slow days and then a long, warm message. A person who isn't interested tends to stay flat across every day. You're looking for a trend, and one quiet afternoon tells you almost nothing.

If she's not asking, ask questions that are easy to answer with more than one line. "What's the best thing you ate this week?" gives her something to tell a story about. "Did you end up going to that thing?" shows you remembered what she mentioned. Questions that refer to something specific she said earlier signal that you were paying attention, and they make it easier to respond with energy.

Avoid questions that only invite a yes or no, and avoid interviewing her. Send one question, then add a small detail about your own life so the exchange feels like conversation rather than a quiz. If she still answers in two words after you've tried this twice, you've learned what you needed to know about her effort level.

A lot of people spend days decoding a single short reply. The more useful question is whether there is a second move you can make that gives her a clean opening. If you have plans you're excited about, mention them. If you want to meet, suggest a specific plan rather than asking whether she wants to hang out. A concrete suggestion forces a real response, and it stops the conversation from drifting into a loop of questions with no answers.

If you've made a fair attempt, meaning two or three thoughtful messages and one specific invitation, and she still isn't engaging, that's enough. Staying in a chat where you're the only one trying is a fast way to feel worse about yourself, and it doesn't change how she feels about you.